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How to treat your girl
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I may need help with this one...lol. We must admit that women are a little more complicated (fellow girlfriends have a hard time understand themselves).One of the things I do know is that every girl wants to be understood by her guy. She doesn't have to say anything before he knows when she's happy, sad, lonely, bored, excited, depressed, etc. She doesn't have to say a word before he knows she wants to leave a place, take a rest, take a walk, have some privacy. The list goes on. So guys should l (Click to show more...)earn to be a lil bit (I take that back...It should be a whole bit) more sensitive.
Guys should also learn to be more romantic. Surprise her with a special gift, or take her to a special place. It doesn't have to be her birthday. Just something to make her know she means a lot to you. It could be as simple as a gift, or as well-planned as a candle-lit dinner. Anything to surprise her.
Guys should also learn to be understanding and patient. Most women like to give details that some guys would find unnecessary when making a point. Hear her out. Don't try to complete her sentences. You'd be surprised that she'd make more sense than you would have ever thought possible. Don't ask me how.
Learn to tell her 'I love you'. Yea. Those three simple words still hold much power. She wants to hear them, so say them. Don't assume she knows. Tell her again and again and again... You won't regret it.
Appreciate her. Tell her she's beautiful. Make her feel good about herself. Write her poems. Make her blush. You would be surprised how much your girl would glow and bloom when you are sincere with these... Best wishes
Posted by MrNiceGuy on Fri, Sep 11th, 2009
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How to treat your guy
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Guys are like cars (sorry guys...lol). When you take good care of a car, service it and maintain it, it would never disappoint you. You would have a wonderful time whenever you take it out. If you are like some Nigerians however who believe 'If it isn't broke, don't fix it...', then expect a lot of car problems. Guys are usually uncomplicated (there are a few weird ones though...lol) and their needs almost predictable. If you can satisfy these needs, then u would have a wonderful relationship.
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Let your guy know you love and respect him. Guys may not seem emotional, but everyone wants to be loved. So show him you care and also show him you respect him.
Learn how to stroke your guys ego. You won't regret it. Let him know that he is the best and that he can overcome any challenge he may have. Help him feel good about himself.
Don't nag too often. Find better ways of communicating your disappointments.
Learn to communicate better with him. Understand that men are usually clueless to the signals women send. I suggest you do more talking and less signaling, else you won't pass any message across.
When you find a good man, make sure you don't lose him.I personally believe that when you say YES to a man, then he should not be the only one chasing after you. You should also chase after him. You are now responsible to the relationship. So don't leave all the hard work to the guy...
Posted by MrNiceGuy on Sat, Sep 5th, 2009
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How to find that right someone
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1. If you think you would find a perfect person, you would be disappointed.
2. While looking for this special someone, spend time developing yourself so that when you find him/her, he/she would like who you are.
3. Don't concentrate on things you can see such as beauty, finances, etc, 'cos these things may disappear in no time. Spend time to discover the inner person and appreciate him/her for who he/she is.
4. Don't rush into any relationship for any reason. You would only end up with heartb (Click to show more...)reak.
5. There are some things that can be changed and some that cannot. Take time to know the difference so you don't waste time trying to change traits in the person that cannot be changed.
6. Accept the person for who he/she is.
7. Before you search for love, learn to love yourself first.
I believe that you can find that right someone. You just have to take time to search and be at the right place always. Good luck...
Posted by MrNiceGuy on Thu, Sep 3rd, 2009
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boiz suck...
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what would you do when you are in a relationship and you both feel insecure??????????
Posted by pink on Sun, Aug 9th, 2009
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MrNiceGuy on Fri, Sep 11th, 2009
Can the ladies in the house tell us more???